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What To Do If He Suddenly Withdraws ™

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Have you ever experienced the following situation : You met an amazing new guy who might be "the one", you went out with him, had a great time, met again and fell madly in love with him. However, the moment you started to feel "safe" and things became stable, he out of a sudden withdrew. From one moment to the next he became unavailable, found excuses not to see you or even worse, stopped contacting you at all. You were totally shocked and disappointed. What on earth had happened ? The answer is: Nothing. Yes, you understand correctly. What you have to know about guys is that they - in contrast to us - have what I call an "automated withdraw-mechanism", that gets triggered whenever he experiences sudden intense emotional closeness to a woman. Even if he enjoys being together with you as much as you do, his masculine instincts tell him there is danger and he has to defend his freedom. Consequently, he starts pulling away. So how should you react when that …

Top 10 Reasons Why Men Have Affairs ™

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The top 10 reasons why men have affairs include :

1. More sex (sometimes due to lack of sex in their relationship)

2. Sexual variety through different partners or different sexual experiences

3. Too boost their ego to feel special or still attractive to the opposite sex

4. For the thrill of the chase

5. Opportunistic sex (if the opportunity occurs, they can’t pass it up)

6. To sabotage their current relationship

7. Revenge (to get back at their partner for one reason or another)

8. A feeling of entitlement (the belief they are entitled because they work hard or are the bread winner)

9. Sexual addiction

10.To escape

There is no such thing as a perfect affair. Keeping an on-going affair is a juggling act of covering up lies, explaining time away, and dealing with associated guilt feelings. The cheater becomes consumed by guilt and sometimes lashes out even more at their partner. If you are involved in an affa…

The Two Types of Men: Mr. Fabulous vs. Mr. Strong (Steady) ™

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Here’s a really simplistic way to evaluate men. Let’s just put men into two categories. One group of men we’ll call fabulous and the other will be those that are strong (steady). Realize with all things, this isn’t to say that there are men who are entirely fabulous or that there are men who are only strong and steady. Usually a ratio of 60-40 is a good measurement. These are going to be their predominant way of relating to you and relating to the world around them. Fabulous men are those who tend to go more up and down with their moods. When they are feeling energized and they are feeling good about themselves, they can be very exciting and…

Woman In Business vs Woman In Love ™

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Ladies, in our professional lives we require certain characteristics that help us get through the day effectively and cope with the challenges of everyday business. The modern "business" woman therefore has adapted many, formally considered "manly", attitudes: She is well-educated, confident, enduring, independent, tough, controlled etc etc. Which is great. Just one thing: When it comes to love and romance, ironically it is exactly those women that seem to have the most problems establishing a successful relationship with a man. How come? you will ask. I personally believe that these women have a dilemma: The powerful attitude they are used to displaying in their professional life is exactly what handicaps the private relationship with a man. Whether they admit it or not, guys are often times repelled or at least intimidated by a woman's s obvious strength, which they then classify as dominance. I've seen that many times. And it even happens to very attract…

What Men Want In Bed: How To Make His World ROCK In The Bedroom ™

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Do you wish to make his world ROCK in the bedroom and become his number ONE desire ??

When it comes to spending time together in the bedroom, we generally believe that it is all on the men. It is commonly believed that a man wants sex more, and that a man should be the one responsible for everything in the bedroom.

Listen up ladies: it is very easy to become the type of woman that your lover will want to take to bed again and again. With just a few simple tricks, you can become the type of seductress that you have always dreamed about becoming.

1) Do Not Try To Be Who You Are Not
The first tip is to be who you are. All of us would love to be more like some of the strip tease artists that every man drools over. Unfortunately, not all of us are coordinated enough to be able to become strip-tease artists overnight.

This does not mean that you do not have the skills to keep your man hot and bothered for a long time, but you may not have the same skills that the many women you've seen have.…

The Female Sex Drive - Tips For Better Sex ™

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Did you know that as much as 46% of women are unhappy with their sex life? Much of this is due to sexual frustration and low female sex drive. There are many causes for low female sex drive and part of that is due to the fact that the female sex drive is more sensitive to environmental, physical, and psychological influences than men.

So how do you increase a female's sex drive? The answer is by working with some of the major causes that lower female sexual desire. Let's take a look.

1. Stress and Low Female Sex Drive
As mentioned above stress has a great impact on the female drive. When woman is thinking about work, kids, or finances her mind is overwhelmed with anxiety that sex is the farthest thing on her mind. However, this is important to increasing the female sex drive.

It is said that a woman must first convince herself to want sex before she is ready for it. Yes, this is true. Recall those times when sex was painful for her ? This is because when the brain receives arousal…

Do Girls Love Thigh High Boots ? ™

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"Thigh high boots" are one of the sexiest boots in women's wardrobe. These boots extend over the knee making the women appear sexy and flattering. Over-the-knee boots are one of the all time favorite fashion accessory of girls and women. Are you too in love with these fetish thigh high boots?

Thigh high boots are called by many names like thigh boots, thigh length boots, over-the-knee boots, kinky boots and crotch boots according to the convenience. It is said that these boots are mostly related with prostitutes. So many women hesitate to wear thigh length boots. Go ahead and stir up the style diva in you with a pair of leather thigh high boots to show off your elegance in the crowd.

One can find a huge variety of these boots ranging from platform to stiletto, lace up to zipper and latex to suede thigh high boots in different hues. The most high-flying and fetish colors prefered by many women to appear sexy are red, pink, white, and black thigh high boots. These crotch boo…

10 Essential Steps For Buying Perfumes Online ™

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Perfumes are popular with the young and old. Perfumes have been in use since ancient times and now wonderful fragrances are available online at prices that are affordable. Fragrances for men and women are special and what suits one person will not suit the other. The World Wide Web is the marketplace to buy perfumes. Exotic and simple fragrances are available at discounted prices. If you are a newbie to the world of perfumes all you need to do is log on to your favorite search engine and type the word perfume or cologne. And in a second thousand of websites dealing with the world of perfumes will become available.

1. Be a smart shopper and read up on perfumes and articles and tips written by famous people and fashion gurus on how to wear and select a perfume.

2. Browse through sites that specialize in perfumes and check whether hey send out small samplers for a cost.

3. Otherwise make a list perfume brands that appeal to you and go to the nearest shopping district or mall and view t…

Cheap Lingerie Without The Cheap Look ™

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Men spend a lot of money trying to find ways to make their loved ones even prettier than they are. To find a look that flatters what his mate has and hides the things she doesn't like about herself can make everyone feel good. But what can be even better is finding cheap lingerie that looks like it cost a million dollars. Even now that's not an easy task. But with an increase in online lingerie shops, it's getting easier.

Cheap lingerie might be a misnomer. Even lingerie on sale is typically higher in cost than a pair of pants. But there are places and times where men can find lower-priced lingerie. Clearance bins at the local department store is one place to look. These bins hold the pieces that got overstocked, or failed to sell for some reason. As such, they may not be silk or satin lingerie with frills or extras. But they can still make a good gift for someone who has not become accustomed to higher-priced lingerie. Another place to look for low-price lingerie is online…

Breast Cancer: The Basics ™

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What is the breast ?
The breast is a collection of glands and fatty tissue that lies between the skin and the chest wall. The glands inside the breast produce milk after a woman has a baby. Each gland is also called a lobule, and many lobules make up a lobe. There are 15 to 20 lobes in each breast. The milk gets to the nipple from the glands by way of tubes called ducts. The glands and ducts get bigger when a breast is filled with milk, but the tissue that is most responsible for the size and shape the breast is the fatty tissue. There are also blood vessels and lymph vessels in the breast. Lymph is a clear liquid waste product that gets drained out of the breast into lymph nodes. Lymph nodes are small, pea-sized pieces of tissue that filter and clean the lymph. Most lymph nodes that drain the breast are under the arm in what is called the axilla. What is breast cancer?
Collections of cells that are growing abnormally or without control are called tumors. Tumors that do not have the a…

The Mystifying and Powerful World of Japanese Fashion ™

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Many would say that fashion is an expression of the culture and soul, hence every nation has a unique reflection of its own history as well as traditions in one way or another.

Japanese fashion is no exception to this sentiment. This article will go into a few details of how it has changed throughout the years while always remaining intact in its traditions.

The Past and the Present
One of the most traditional and common Japanese fashion outfits is the Kimono; it is still worn today in more modern designs, it was also embraced by the Western nations because of its sensuality as well as elegance.

Throughout the years Japanese fashion saw very few changes but throughout the years the Kimono was a dominant part of the classic collection and consistently a part of their lives in one form or another. Another kind of Kimono is the Furisode which is worn by young women in their twenties; in Japan the age to legally drink and smoke is twenty and in order to celebrate the parent frequently offer…

Fashion Forward 2008 - The Top Hot Fashion Trends ™

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You probably can't recall who said it, but whoever first uttered that fashion comes full circle every 30 years or so was not too far off. This season on the runway is reminiscent of the flowing 70s in both fabric and style. We are seeing much more of the long skirt and much less of the micro mini. Materials like silk and chiffon, which tend to flow and gather, are much more popular for Spring 2008 than fabrics like cotton or denim which tend to hold shape and stay stiffer in appearance. The word for the season is feminine, feminine, feminine! The exception to this seems to be in outerwear, where rubber is oddly back in style. Indoors, though, thin little belts, hats, and scarves are also popular and a throwback to the 70s as well as being womanly. Don't despair, though - some things from last season are still popular and can be recycled for this season. Accessories like metallic bags and clutches, as well as sequins and some of the longer pencil skirts can still be worn with c…

Spring 2008 Fashion Styles : Top Twelve Trends ™

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Take a blend of many decades of style, add a dash of old Hollywood glamour, and you have the magic of the trends for spring 2008. This season the designers added modern twists to our favorite classic and timeless pieces. Fashion icons like Audrey Hepburn, Jackie Kennedy, and Princess Diana wore many of these sophisticated and classic trends: romantic, flirty, and colorful in design and mood. Here are my top twelve trends for spring. You may not love all of them, but I encourage you to select a few to add to your existing wardrobe to look more modern and fashionable.

Crayola Colors
This season the designers have added a lot of vibrant hues in saturated colors like bright yellow, grass green, royal blue, red, safety orange and fuchsia. These bright colors may be hard for everyone to wear. If you want to experiment with bold colors, start with a bright blouse or jacket and pair it with a pair of white pants or a skirt, which will tone it down a bit. When you wear bright colors like these,…

The Most Serious Health Concerns for Women and What You Can Do

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These days, it seems women have more health concerns than ever. Perhaps they are greater in number than ever before or perhaps we are just more aware of women's issues as women are more comfortable having them brought to the forefront.

One issue that continually does get the attention it deserves is breast cancer. The breast cancer statistics are alarming, and almost everyone you know has a sister or mother who has suffered from this deadly disease. If caught early enough, it does not have to be deadly. In fact, there are things you can do so that you don't get it at all. Every woman (young and old) should be checking their breasts monthly to detect for any strange lumps or any unusual signs. This can be done in the shower, with one arm raised and the other performing the checking task. Any doctor can show you the specifics on how to do this. If you do sense something suspicious, make an appointment with your doctor right away to have it looked at. The other thing you can do is…

Boots Fashion - 4 Things You Need To Know To Keep Up With The Latest Trends

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As the seasons change in the winter months come upon us, most people are not surprised that many people are exchanging their stilettos for warm boots. However, fashion does not need to be sacrificed just because you are exchanging your shoes for something that is warmer and has more support.

You will find that there are numerous professional boots available to keep you in style. However, there are certain attributes that make a boot fashionable. To be in trend with boots fashion, a boot should have the right material, color, length, and should be worn the proper way.

Material
A warm material should be the first thing to consider when looking into session. You want to look for a boot that is well made and can withstand any type of weather is subject to. It should be well built enough to go from a sunny afternoon, into a thunderstorm, to trudging through thick snow. One of the best materials in the winter season is typically suede or soft weatherproof leather.

An additional excellent mate…