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Does Age Matter ?™

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Well isn’t that the $64,000 question ? The answer really is a personal thing. There is no right or wrong answer, as long as both parties are over the age of consent. If you were to research the subject you would probably find that it is not uncommon for people to be in a relationship where there is an age gap. Sometimes there is quite a difference in the ages. In some parts of the world it is not uncommon for young women to marry older men. Everyone has their own opinions as to why a young girl would marry an older man, especially one that is much older than she is. You know the sort of thing, ‘the girls are gold diggers, trophy brides or mail order brides, etc. It is also becoming more popular these days for older women to marry younger men. Again some of these young men may be gold diggers, but most people seem to think it is because the older woman wants a toy boy. Whether like the older men they want to have a trophy on their arm to show off to their friends or whether they prefer…

What Does Your Man REALLY Want ?™

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If there is one question for which every woman wants an answer is what men want. This question crops up in the mind of every woman be it be a teenager going on her first date; a newly wedded wife getting ready for her husband to return from work; a single woman waiting to find the right man; a divorcee trying to rebuild her life.

This question has been asked by women in the past, and will be asked by women in the future too. It is a question that has no easy answers; with each relationship being completely different from another. The best one can do is to explore seven subjects that form the cornerstone of any relationship between men and women. These subjects hold the key for any woman to understand what men want.

1. Sex
What do men want in sex ?
How frequent should be lovemaking ?
Should it be passionate ?
Should women have sex before marriage ?

There is little doubt that most men are obsessed with sex. It is a biological need, and men should not be blamed for wanting sex. However, sex a…

Ten Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex With A Man™

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You see a lot of articles about what men can do during sex to make it better for the woman, but there's a lot less information - and opinion - on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here's our list of ten things for women to avoid.

1 Expecting him to think like a woman
We've all seen loads of books with titles like "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" which highlight an unfortunate difference between the sexes. Men and women don't think the same way - and while we're not going to get into why this happens, it's important to remember that fact when you're in a relationship. In general, men are not as romantic as women, they don't see romance as a necessary prelude to sex, and they can divorce sex from their feelings in a way that perhaps most women can't. So there will be plenty of times when a man wants sex even if he isn't feeling romantic and connected to his partner.

For him, the physical pleasure of sex is …

You Can Teach Your Man To Be a Better Lover™

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Most women tell a similar story. “I love my man and I know he loves me. Our sex life is O.K., but most of the time he doesn’t really know how to pleasure me. Our sex is mostly for his pleasure. Sometimes I fake an orgasm, just to get it over with and not hurt his feelings.”

What if you could have a better lover without changing your relationship ?

What if your current, less-then-excellent-lover learned to listen to your body and paid attention to those things which make sex great for you? What if you as a couple could learn ways to re-invigorate your intimate times together—even in the midst of much-too-busy schedules and/or the demands of children in the home?

Yes, these “what ifs” could become “the way it is” with less time and energy that you might imagine. The information and skills needed are now available. This new intimacy education goes beyond basic sex education to teach the intimacy skills and relationship-enhancing techniques for great sex rarely taught in our society.

At least…

Why A Women Needs So Many Different Types Of Jewellery™

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The definition of the word “Jewelery” is literally any piece of fine material that someone uses to adorn themselves. It can be made out of almost every substance known to man and has been made to decorate nearly every body part, from hairpins, belly button and toe rings to regal tiaras, diamond rings, pendants, bracelets and earrings. While many of the high-quality pieces are made with gemstones like diamonds and sapphires and precious metals like platinum, the cheaper but very attractive items of costume jewelery are made from less valuable materials and tend to be mass-produced.With a description that offers such enormous scope, it is no wonder that “a woman can never have enough jewelery”. For example, different pieces are needed to mirror moods: someone feeling flamboyant would probably wear some large pieces like chandelier earrings, a multi coloured gem set pendant and bracelet and colourfull three stone ring set with mixed gemstones like diamonds, rubies, sapphires or emeralds…

Top 5 Interior Decorating And Art Trends For 2008™

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Pamela Smith, one of the top experts in the quickly rising field of interior redesign, discusses having the proper perspective on trends:"Are trends merely a designer's opinion of what's in fashion, or are they important style markers that add continuity to our lives ? When asking for a definition of the word "trend," my guess is most would say it means transitory - like lava lamps and shag carpeting. However, I imagine trends as sturdier stuff, based on finding beautiful and appropriate core-enhancers for a home. Your home shouldn't be all about changing styles for change's sake. Trends are about adding in fresh pieces that solidify the layers around the core."Updating your home with stylish, new furnishings has never been easier. There is such a wide array of styles available you're sure to find several to suit your home's décor. Whether you prefer ultra-sophisticated, nature-inspired, Zen influence, or country cozy, each of these styles s…

Muscle Fitness For Women™

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I'm here to give tips on muscle fitness for women. You can use this information to help build muscles and become a better bodybuilder. As women, we are at a disadvantage in this sport, but it really isn't that bad if we take advantage of the important things.
Squats & Deadlifts: I'm often surprised at how many people don't do these exercises. I've heard many excuses like "my legs are already big", "I'm trying to build up my upper body", etc. Let me tell you something, I didn't notice a significant increase in my upper body muscles until I started doing squats and deadlifts. These two particular exercises have a very significant and powerful effect over the body that result in more overall growth in muscles. These exercises have also been shown to help increase long term testosterone production.Speed Up Your Metabolism: The most important thing you want to do is speed up your metabolism. When your metabolism is going at the highest rat…

Tips on How to Dress For the Flat Chested™

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Dressing well is all about refining the art of distraction and illusion. You get that right, and you have overall image balance. Lets admit it; breasts are a major focal point (men to the point of blindness), so if your lacking a bountiful bosom, read on.

Accept what you have. Chicken fillets, wonder bras and surgery anyone? Well you could make something out of nothing, and receive a few bonus scars for your efforts or embrace the idea of deferring the attention from your chest.

Thank goodness for celebrities. They are as varied as you and I. Clare Danes, Kate Hudson and Keira Knightly are my fellow flat chested companions and prove you can still cut it without much. Take note of what they wear.

One of the simplest features to check on a garment is whether they have any detail around the bust area i.e. pockets, buttons, or patterns. Check out each of the celebrity photos above, their stylists have all ensured that their outfits have detail around their chest area. Collars and wide lapels…

8 Cheap Home Gym Essentials™

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You can put together a cheap home gym that gets the job done if you buy the essentials. As long as you stick with the proven equipment list -and stay away from the latest ab-flexor- you can't go wrong.

The following are my 8 home gym must-haves:

1) Dumbbells
Dumbbells are essential for the home fitness gym, necessary for presses, arm exercises and even a few core exercises. There are many kinds of dumbbells out there, from the cheap to the boutique. All of which fall into one of two types: fixed weight or handles only.
Handles are plate loaded. This requires you to slide the weight plate on yourself and then fasten the weight with collars. Most handles are either standard or Olympic. Standard are smaller in diameter than the Olympic version. You’ll want to coordinate any plate loaded barbells you purchase with your dumbbells. That way the plates are compatible. Standard handles start at around $8. Olympic handles are pricier and longer. This added length actually takes getting used to…

A Healthy Approach To Stress™

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Different people get bothered for different reasons. A big sports game, an office presentation, deadlines at work, even other people and relationships --- all these can cause us stress. This feeling of mild anxiety can cause different outcomes, even negative consequences. A student can fail his or her exam simply by being stressed out or when he encounters a mental block that prevents effective study or getting the right answers to an exam.

Stress, as a normal human reaction, is the body's reaction to rising challenges and tough situations. Everyone, in some way or another, encounters stress whenever possible. It is simply inevitable. People and events tend to clash, therefore resulting in stress. People work, play, study, do things everyday, and it is impossible not to feel stressed at one way or another. At this point, when people do not want to experience any much of this, they turn to medications for anti stress, also associated with anti-anxiety for instant relief.

A healthier …

How To Wear A Hat™

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Many women shy away from wearing hats simply because they honestly believe that they would not be able to pull off wearing one. To some women, hats call too much attention to themselves. Some women, on the other hand, just do not know how to wear a hat. It is a shame, actually, because a hat is a fashion accessory that every woman should have in her wardrobe.

Now, why is that? Why should a hat or two be part of a woman’s wardrobe? One reason is that a hat is a great fashion accessory that can pull together an outfit and improve its overall look. The other reason is that a hat provides ample protection from the harmful rays of the sun, at a time when skin cancer is now a cause for fear and people are becoming aware of the dangers of exposing the skin to sunlight far too long.

In order to be able to pull off the look of an outfit with a hat, you only need to know how to wear one. The basic rule about wearing hats is that if you find the particular hat that you have got on quite comforta…

7 Things You Need To Know When You Do Mattress Brands Comparison™

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A mattress is one of the biggest in home purchases you will make and when you do mattress brands comparison there are 7 things you need to know to ensure you choose a mattress that will provide you with sleep comfort you desire.


1. Set Your Budget
Mattresses are available in a wide range of prices from the very expensive to the most inexpensive which cost only a few hundred dollars. Of course the quality and features depend on what you spend.

It is best to decide what you can afford to spend on your new bed and then shop within that range. Dry not to skimp. This is an investment that you'll live with for around 10 years so set your budget as high as you can.

2. Choose Your Size
Decide what size mattress you will buy. Is it for your master bedroom, a child's room, or a guest room ? For your master bedroom choose a minimum of a queen size if it will at all fit in your room. Go for a king if it will fit. The larger bed more comfortable the sleep pattern. For a child's room a twin …

Seven Ways to Drive Your Man Wild™

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It's unbelievable the amount of bad advice there is out there on how to seduce a man or if they give you advice they forget to tell you how to use it properly. So here are a couple of tips on what to do and what not to do to drive a man wild and an instruction manual.

1) Dress in a way that makes you feel sexy and also flatters your figure. Let's face it some of us look ridiculous in stilettos.

Red is almost always a good color. Try a red slinky dress and comfortable undergarments. Those torture devices they sell to suck in our guts look great under the dress but are not sexy at all when you are trying to yank them off for a wild night of pleasure.

2) Pay attention to what he has to say for a change. Yes, you can talk about yourself but a man finds it really refreshing when a woman allows him to have his own time in the spotlight.

3) Don't talk about your ex. If he asks, keep it short and sweet. You are starting fresh with this guy. No need to bring in the ghost of past relati…

The Best Women's Boots for Warm Weather™

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Traditionally, boots were made to wear when it was cold or wet outside. They were also worn as work-shoes, because of their durability and dependability. However, as time progressed, more and more people are wearing boots in warm weather. This has happened for many reasons, because they are stylish, because they are useful, or because they are simply the best footwear choice for the situation. Therefore, it is important to think about a few things when deciding upon the best women's boots for warm weather.

Style
In many major US and European cities, boots are worn in warm weather as a style choice. Either women are wearing a sundress with cowboy boots, or they are wearing jeans and winter boots. Sometimes, they are even seen wearing shorts and winter-type boots. These are all style choices that are becoming quite popular.

However, the only way that the style works is if the woman is wearing boots specially designed for this style. Wearing regular snow-boots might not be a good style …